Sorry In Vain
My topic today has five letters, s-o-r-r-y, sorry. Is it trivial? Is it contemptible? May be, in your eyes, I assume.Since sorry is closely related to our daily life, I have been a victim of sorry recently, since I have been presented with such an in-time opportunity, I am eager to vent something to you, my poor readers. Here I mean that you will be on the receiving end. And thank you in advance.
In my eyes, I am a person of courtesy more or less. Naturally, sorry is my catchword after I have done something wrong. It seems that it works very well because any victim of my wrongdoing will give me a sweet smile or even a warm hug after receiving my five letters. But I just wonder: will my sorry really relieve them? Will they really forgive me? Or if they forgive, will the fact accept and tolerate me?
It is not so simply settled. And sorry does not play such an effective role in our life as we have expected formerly. Shadow has been already cast upon other people's mind. An innocent person answers a call in a very rude way because of some unknown reasons or because of hispoisonous mood. No matter how pious his apology will be, his impression on the other people is dwarfed.
To some degree, the utterance of the five letters sorry is the reflection of irresponsibility and selfishness. The reason why you say sorry is that you want to console your friends instead of comforting your friends. You may feel comfortable after you subconsciously shift all the responsibility to your friends. And you also want to escape the blame from your friends. In mental, it is totally selfish. What is worse, you even want to save face in public through saying sorry. Without being considered the degree of importance, the hideous reason exists. What a sham! And what a vicious trick!
What you'd best do is something more practical. An old saying goes “Action speaks louder than words.” So for the sake of energy, please do not say sorry to your miserable friends. Instead, try to exert yourself to make some compensation to alleviate your friends’ comfort, though you may have to pay a heavy price. Anyhow, it is worthwhile.
Finally, I have every reason to set a requirement for myself. Try to avoid saying sorry in my daily life. And you, too.
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