Public Kisses Everywhere
The kiss of Prince awakens sleeping Beauty. So kissing should be regarded as a symbol of pure and holy love. This is my understanding of kiss. Nowadays, kiss is abused in public places: kisses in a crowded bus, kisses on the wooden chair of campus, kisses in front of dormitory, etc. as a spectator, I think kissing in public places would pollute other’s eyesight. It’s not only immoral but against our culture and tradition.No one could deny its nobility to express affection to another person through a kiss so long as it is in a right place and at right time. But out of place and at wrong time, it will make many people feel disgusted and uncomfortable. Some people may claim that kissing is their own business and they don’t force others to see them. This is nonsense just like a person who smokes in public claims that he doesn’t force others to smoke; also like a neighbor who turn his volume up on the stereo to make noises claims that he doesn’t force his neighbors to hear it. It’s true that our society is becoming open for our personality, but as a person in a civilized society, we should not do things without considering others’ feeling. It is a matter of social morality.
Every nation has its own cultural tradition. The same can be said of China. Chinese people put great value on affections among them, yet the way to express feelings is quite different from that in western countries, where kissing is considered common just as shaking hands in China. Under the influence of western culture, many young people swallow blindly the fresh and exciting way of expressing love. However, we must know that opening door to the outside world doesn’t mean welcoming everything with exotic tastes. We must learn to distinguish what’s proper and what’s improper for us. It is by no means a good thing for one to imitate something foreign just for showing that he or she is an avant-garde. Our attitudes towards public kiss may change as time goes on, but I assume it still have a long way to go.
In my opinion, love is private and should be treated privately. We can equally express our deep feelings towards a person without public kisses. Still water runs deep.
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